Be Wary of Covetousness

Exodus 20:17 – “You shall not covet… anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
Luke 12:15 – “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.”

Let me be real:
It’s hard to scroll social media and not feel like you’re behind.
You see the new car, the vacation pics, the seemingly perfect marriage, the six-figure side hustle. And without even realizing it, something subtle starts to creep in…

Comparison.
Envy.
Discontentment.

It’s not always loud or obvious. Sometimes it sounds like, “Why not me?” or “If I just had what they have…” That quiet voice can spiral fast—and before long, you’ve stopped being thankful for what’s in your hand because you’re too busy staring at what’s in someone else’s.

That’s the danger of covetousness, wanting what someone else has so badly that it clouds your purpose and poisons your perspective. It’s one of the Ten Commandments for a reason (Exodus 20:17), not because God wants to restrict us, but because He knows how easily our hearts get distracted.

Jesus warned in Luke 12:15, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.”
That’s a strong “watch out” – because comparison doesn’t just make you feel behind… it blinds you.

It blinds you to the blessings in your own life.
It blinds you to the unique calling God placed on your path.
It blinds you to how far you’ve already come.

One of the most freeing moments in my life was realizing that I’m not called to their race, I’m called to mine.
And my job isn’t to match someone else’s highlight reel – it’s to be faithful with what God has put in front of me today.

Want to protect your heart from envy? Try this:

Every time you catch yourself comparing, stop and say out loud one thing you’re grateful for.
Seriously, train your eyes to see blessings, not gaps. Gratitude is spiritual armor against covetousness.

And when someone else wins? Celebrate them. Don’t just scroll past – speak life. The kingdom isn’t a competition. We rise together.

So be wary of envy. It’s sneaky. It looks harmless. But it will rob you blind – and smile while doing it.
Don’t let it.

Your life, your gifts, your pace – they’re enough when surrendered to God.
And He never called you to look like them.
He called you to look like Christ.

So stay in your lane. Keep your eyes up. And run your race well.

Be Wary of Debt

Proverbs 22:7 – “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.”

I’ll be honest, this is one of those principles I wish I had fully grasped in my twenties.

Debt is so normalized in our culture that we barely question it. Swipe now, pay later. Finance it. Stretch it. Reward points. Zero interest for 12 months. You’ve heard the pitch.
And while not all debt is evil, let’s be clear – debt always comes with a cost.

The Bible doesn’t say debt is a sin, but it does say that the borrower becomes a slave to the lender (Proverbs 22:7). That’s strong language. And it’s not just poetic, it’s painfully practical.
When your paycheck is already spoken for before it hits your bank account, you’re not free.
When you want to follow God into something bold – but debt holds you back – you’re not free.
When you’re anxious all the time because of what you owe, that’s not abundance. That’s bondage.

And here’s the part we don’t like to admit:
Debt often replaces discipline.
It lets us have what we haven’t earned, build what God hasn’t told us to build, or project an image that doesn’t match reality.

I’ve seen it in my own life, times when I got ahead of God, chasing what looked like opportunity but ended up feeling like a trap. And I’ve seen others with big dreams and God-given gifts… stuck. Not because they didn’t have the potential, but because debt had already sold off their margin.

So what’s the better way?

Ask first. Build slow. Live free.
Before you sign for anything, take it to God.
Luke 14:28 reminds us to count the cost before building the tower. It’s not just about money- it’s about wisdom, timing, and trust.

Ask:

  • “Do I really need this?”
  • “Is this adding value or adding pressure?”
  • “Is this God’s plan or my impatience?”

And if you’re already buried in debt, there’s hope. You don’t get free overnight, but you can get free. Start small. Make a plan. Cut back. Stay humble. Stay consistent. Freedom comes step by step.

Because ultimately, this is about more than just financial strategy, it’s about spiritual posture.
You can’t live fully surrendered to God while being enslaved to money.

Debt doesn’t just affect your wallet, it affects your future, your peace, your family, your purpose.
So be wise. Be watchful. Be free.

You weren’t made for enslavement – you were made for stewardship.
Every dollar, every opportunity, every possession belongs to God. You’re not building your own kingdom, you’re managing His.

And God is still in the business of helping His people walk out of bondage—one obedient, faithful step at a time.

Be Smart with Money

Proverbs 21:5 – “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”

Let’s be honest—most of us were never taught how to handle money. We were taught how to earn it… maybe even how to give a little of it… but when it came to managing what’s left? A lot of us were just winging it.

But here’s what I’ve come to realize:
Worship is what you give. Wisdom is what you do with the rest.

In other words, giving God your first is a spiritual act of trust—but how you handle what’s left is just as important.
Because the Bible doesn’t just speak to generosity—it speaks to stewardship.

Luke 14:28 says, “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?”
Jesus wasn’t giving a financial seminar—He was teaching about discipleship. But He used a financial principle to make His point: count the cost. Plan ahead. Don’t guess.

I’ve watched men pray for financial breakthrough while living paycheck to paycheck with no plan, no budget, and no discipline. I’ve been that man myself. But at some point, I had to realize:
God won’t bless what you won’t take responsibility for.

Proverbs 27:23-24 says, “Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever…”
In today’s language, that might sound like: “Know your bank accounts. Track your spending. Don’t just hope—manage.”

Here’s a simple place to start:
Look back at your last 30 days of spending—print out your bank statement or download the data. Grab a highlighter.

  • Highlight needs in one color: rent, utilities, groceries, gas.
  • Highlight wants in another: eating out, subscriptions, online shopping.
  • Tally up both.

What you’ll likely find is that you don’t have an income problem—you have a clarity problem. And once you see where your money is going, you can tell it where to go on purpose.

That’s the first step toward a budget that reflects your values, not just your habits.

Because money is a tool. A powerful one. But tools require skill.
You don’t hand a power saw to someone who won’t learn how to use it. Likewise, God entrusts more to those who show they can be trusted with a little (Luke 16:10).

So here’s the challenge:
Start paying attention. Make a plan. Build a budget. Cut what’s wasteful. Invest what’s wise. Get help if you need it.

Guessing with money is how men stay broke.
But planning with wisdom is how men build something that lasts.

The goal isn’t to be rich—the goal is to be faithful.
And when you’re faithful with your finances, you gain more than control—you gain peace.

Because wisdom with money doesn’t just change your wallet.
It changes your future.
And it honors the One who gave it to you.

Money Is a Worship Issue


1 Timothy 6:10 – “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.”

Money isn’t the enemy.
But when it becomes the object of your trust, affection, or identity—it’s no longer a tool. It’s a false god. And it will fail you every single time.

We love to quote 1 Timothy 6:10, but notice what it actually says:
“The love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.”
Money itself is neutral—it’s a tool. But the moment we start loving it, serving it, or letting it define us, we’ve crossed a line. We’ve moved from stewardship to idolatry.

That’s exactly what happened in the story of Cain and Abel (Genesis 4:2–5).
Both brothers brought an offering to the Lord—but only one was accepted. Why?
Because Abel brought his first and best, while Cain gave from his leftovers.
The difference wasn’t just in what they gave—it was in the heart behind it.

Abel gave in faith. Cain gave in obligation.
And to this day, God still blesses faith over leftovers.

Proverbs 3:9–10 says:
“Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the first fruits of all your produce; then your barns will be filled with plenty, and your vats will be bursting with wine.”
In other words—God doesn’t bless your tips. He blesses your trust.

I had to wrestle with that myself. There was a time when giving to God felt like one more bill. I gave what was convenient, not what was consecrated. But I started to realize—money reveals what you really worship.
Jesus said it best in Matthew 6:21:
“Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

If I spend everything on me and give God the scraps, I’m not honoring Him—I’m just managing guilt. But when I choose to give to God first, I’m declaring, “You’re my Provider. My source. My security.”
That’s worship.

And here’s the paradox: the more I’ve released my grip on money, the more peace I’ve gained around it.
Because money makes a terrible god—but it makes a powerful servant.

The world says “get rich.”
Jesus says “be rich in good works” (1 Timothy 6:17–19).
The world says “hold on tight.”
Jesus says “freely you’ve received—freely give” (Matthew 10:8).

To truly win with money, you have to settle the heart issue first.
God doesn’t need your money—but He wants your heart.
And when your heart is surrendered, generosity becomes a joy—not a burden.

So here’s the question we all have to answer:
Do I own my money, or does my money own me?

Give God your first.
Steward the rest with wisdom.
And trust that when God is first—everything else finds its proper place.

A Father’s Day Dadvotional: Standing Strong in Love

I’m about halfway through writing a series about here on Dadvotionals—a journey I expect will span 8 or 9 posts when all is said and done. I am not 100% sure where its leading me – but I am just going with it. If you’ve missed it here they are:

You Were Made to Produce

Present Your Gift

Honesty is a Big Deal

Blessing is Attached to Diligence

But I felt compelled to hit pause and insert a special word for Father’s Day. This day means a lot to us here. It’s more than a card, a tie, or a backyard grill session. It’s a holy reminder of the weight and wonder of fatherhood.

I think about my sons today—about how fiercely I love them and how deeply I desire to be the kind of man they can look up to. I want to show them what it means to love sacrificially, laugh wholeheartedly, and work diligently. Those were lessons my dad taught me well before he went home to be with the Lord.

He didn’t need a platform or a pulpit. He taught with his life. My dad would admit that he was far from perfect, but he taught me so much, by his actions and his words. In his last few days, we had some wonderful and life changing conversations. And today, I know he’s looking down, proud of the man I’ve become and the men I am raising.

I also think of my father-in-law. A man who has walked through his own valleys and come out standing. His love is quiet but steadfast. His story is one of grace and redemption—reminding me that the best fathers are not the perfect ones, but the ones who let Christ perfect them over time. I’m grateful for the example he sets in humility, forgiveness, and renewed strength. He has taught me to do the next right thing, one step at a time, with love and compassion.

As fathers, we carry a high calling. The Bible reminds us:

“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.” – Psalm 103:13

“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” – Ephesians 6:4

“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:13–14

That last one gets me. Be strong… but let everything be done in love. This world teaches us that strength is dominance, independence, even emotional distance. But the Gospel redefines fatherhood: it’s about love, presence, and godly conviction. This verse reminds me to forget what the world says about being a man, do it God’s way.

So today, I want to encourage every father, every grandfather, every spiritual dad reading this:

Stand strong in love. Be the man who doesn’t conform to the ways of this world. Be the man your children know will pray for them, fight for them, and lead them in truth. Be the father your Heavenly Father is calling you to be.

We don’t always get it right—but praise God, He’s still working on us. And that’s something to celebrate this Father’s Day.

Happy Father’s Day, men. Keep standing. Keep loving. Keep leading. In other words, keep acting like men.

Blessing Is Attached to Diligence

Proverbs 10:4 – “Lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring wealth.”

One of the biggest lies we’re sold today is that success is about luck.
Right place, right time. Right connection. Right break.

But when I look at the people I admire most—those who’ve built something lasting, those who live with purpose and peace—it’s not luck that got them there.
It’s diligence.
It’s faithfulness in the small things, long before anyone was watching.

I’ve learned that God isn’t looking for perfection—He’s looking for persistence. He is looking for obedience.

Early in my career, I kept praying for breakthrough. For doors to open. For opportunities to come. And God, in His grace, began to open those doors—but not before teaching me a key lesson: He won’t multiply what you won’t commit to.

Proverbs 21:5 says, “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”
There’s a pattern here: steady effort leads to steady blessing.

I’ve seen this play out on the hard days—when showing up early, staying a little later, solving the problem no one wanted to touch, or delivering excellence even when no one noticed became an act of worship.
Diligence isn’t glamorous. It’s not loud. But it’s powerful.

And let me be clear on this: you can’t earn your salvation.
We are saved by grace through faith, not by works, so that no one can boast (Ephesians 2:8–9).

But diligence isn’t about earning God’s love—it’s about living in response to it.
It’s obedience.
It’s stewardship.
It’s saying, “God, I’m going to give my best—not to get saved, but because I am saved.”

Colossians 3:23 says, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.”
That verse reframed everything for me. It reminded me that I don’t work just for a paycheck or a promotion—I work for God. And He sees every faithful hour, every small win, every time I choose excellence over ease.

We love to pray for favor. But sometimes, I think God is looking at us and saying,
“You’re asking Me to bless what you haven’t built yet.”
Faith is not the opposite of hard work. It fuels it. It gives it meaning.

So if you’re in a season where the grind feels long and the reward feels far off—don’t quit.
Keep showing up. Keep being the one who finishes what they start.
Keep being the problem-solver, the table-setter, the go-the-extra-mile kind of person.

Because in God’s economy, diligence is never wasted.
And the hands that stay faithful?
Those are the ones He fills.

Honesty Is a Big Deal

Ephesians 4:28 – “Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.”

I’ve worked in environments where cutting corners wasn’t just accepted—it was expected. I’ve seen leaders fudge numbers, coworkers stretch the truth, and deals made in ways that left integrity in the dust. And here’s the thing: on the surface, it often looked like those people were winning.

But over time, you start to see the cracks.
Trust erodes. Reputations weaken. And what once looked like success reveals itself as something much more fragile.

That’s why I’ve made a choice: I won’t conform to the culture of compromise.
Romans 12:2 says it plainly: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” That includes how we work. That includes how we lead. That includes the choices we make when no one’s watching.

Honesty still matters. Not just because it’s the “right thing”—but because it reflects the God we serve.
Proverbs 10:9 says, “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.”
In other words, the truth may cost you something up front—but dishonesty costs you far more in the long run.

What I’ve come to believe is this: Character compounds.
Over time, consistent integrity builds something money can’t buy—trust, respect, and legacy. It’s not flashy, and it doesn’t always feel fast, but it’s firm. And God honors it.

I think about Joseph in Genesis 39. He had every excuse to compromise when Potiphar’s wife came calling. No one was around. He had been treated unfairly. But he didn’t make excuses—he made a stand. And God used that integrity to position him for leadership.

We live in a world where “fast money” and instant results are glorified. But Proverbs 13:11 says, “Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.”

So here’s my encouragement to you:
Keep your hands clean.
Tell the truth, even when it’s inconvenient.
Own your mistakes.
Lead with integrity.

You might not make headlines, but you’ll make a difference.
And the fruit of honest work? It’s peace. It’s purpose. It’s knowing you laid your head down each night without a mask, without a cover-up, and without regret.

So keep walking the honest road. It may be narrow, but it leads to freedom.

Present Your Gift


Proverbs 18:16 – “A man’s gift makes room for him and brings him before the great.”

For years, I felt like I was chasing a job title more than I was chasing purpose. I looked at what everyone else was doing and thought, “Maybe I should be doing that too.” But that pursuit led to frustration and fatigue. I was trying to squeeze into shoes that didn’t fit—ignoring the ones God had already set at my feet. I then went through a career change and wanted nothing to do with being a leader. For years I hid from a role that was chasing me, one similar to the one I left. I could not understand how my career and my field of expertise had anything to do with building God’s Kingdom – or why it had any divine purpose at all.

The turning point came during a season where I started saying yes to small opportunities that aligned with what I was good at—even if they didn’t seem impressive on the outside. I stopped trying to be someone else and started leaning into who God actually made me to be.

That’s when things started to shift.

I realized that your gift is your edge. It’s the unique way God wired you to impact the world. And Proverbs 18:16 is clear: your gift makes room for you. It opens doors that hustle can’t. It brings you before the right people, in the right places, at the right time. But here’s the catch—it only works if you use it.

A lot of people sit around waiting for clarity—waiting for a “sign” before they move. But in my experience, clarity follows motion. God directs the man who’s moving, not the one making excuses. Like a GPS, God doesn’t steer a parked car. He guides you as you go.

I had to stop overthinking it and start using my gifts where I was – instead of looking for a place that my gifts were needed. I said yes to leading a small project. Then another. I was put in charge of a team, and then another. I led, served, built—sometimes clumsily, but always prayerfully. Little by little, I found my lane. It didn’t feel like striving. It felt like breathing.

Let me say this as clearly as I can: You don’t have to beg to be used by God. You just have to bring what’s already in your hand.

Whether it’s a talent for fixing things, encouraging others, organizing chaos, or teaching truth—your gift matters. Don’t wait for someone to crown you. Start using it now. Serve where you are. Grow it. Steward it. Sharpen it. God does not call the qualified, he qualifies the called.

The world doesn’t need more carbon copies. It needs you, fully alive in the lane God designed for you.

So ask yourself today:
What do I do effortlessly that helps others?
What stirs my heart and makes time fly?
Where do I see results when I show up with passion?

That might just be your gift talking.
If it aligns with scripture and if you’ll use it, God will multiply it.

So stop waiting. Start building. Present your Gift to the world, as God intended.

You Were Made to Produce

Genesis 2:15 – “The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.”

I used to think work was a curse. Like many, I bought into the idea that work is what you have to do so you can eventually afford what you want to do. But somewhere along the way—between a soul-deep burnout and a humbling moment in prayer—I realized something that changed everything: God gave Adam a job before He gave him a wife.

Before there was sin, there was work. That means work isn’t a punishment—it’s a purpose.

That truth hit me hard in a season when I felt aimless. I had a decent job and a decent paycheck, but inside, I felt like I was just clocking in and clocking out. No spark. No drive. I had lost sight of what I was made for. But when I opened Genesis and saw that God placed Adam in the garden to work it and keep it, it reframed everything.

Work isn’t just about making money—it’s about making meaning. God designed us to build, solve, lead, and create. That doesn’t mean everyone’s supposed to be an entrepreneur or a CEO. It means that whether you’re swinging a hammer, typing code, raising kids, or teaching third graders, your work can reflect the character of a God who is always creating, always cultivating.

I used to feel guilty for wanting to succeed. I thought that maybe ambition was at odds with humility. But then I realized—it’s not ambition that’s wrong. It’s selfish ambition. There’s a difference. God honors the man who wakes up early, works with his hands, and sees his job as a form of worship.

I’ve started to ask a different question in the mornings—not, “What do I have to do today?” but, “What do I get to build today?”

Some days it’s small—organizing a meeting that actually helps instead of wasting time. Other days it’s bigger—leading a team through a tough season. But every day, I’m learning to see my work not as something separate from my faith, but as a part of it.

So here’s the reminder I needed—and maybe you do too:

You were made to produce.

You weren’t made for apathy. You weren’t made to coast. God placed something inside you that the world needs.

Don’t wait for perfect conditions. Don’t wait until everything makes sense. Just start. Work the garden God gave you. Get your hands in the dirt.

Because the God who put Adam in Eden still calls men to build today.

And He blesses what you put your hands to.

Leading with Faith

Finding Purpose in the Corporate World

For years, I have wrestled with a lingering question: How does my career in property tax software implementation contribute to God’s kingdom? I have written about this a few times as it is a constant struggle for me to try to reconcile. At first glance, my work seems far removed from traditional ministry. Unlike pastors, missionaries, or those working in faith-based organizations, my role revolves around data, technology, and helping governments manage property taxation. Where does God fit into that?

Whenever I think about this, Proverbs 16:9 comes to mind: “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” I may not have set out to work in tax software, but God has placed me here for a reason. And through much prayer and reflection, I’ve come to realize that my calling isn’t necessarily about what I do but how I do it.

Called to Lead, Called to Serve

Over time, I’ve seen that my role isn’t just about implementing software—it’s about leading people. Leadership, when approached through the lens of faith, is an opportunity to serve, uplift, and guide others with integrity. Jesus himself modeled servant leadership, reminding us in Mark 10:45, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

This realization transformed how I view my work. I am not just a manager or director; I am a shepherd to my team. My leadership is my ministry. Every decision I make, every challenge I navigate, and every person I mentor is an opportunity to reflect Christ’s love and character. Whether it’s advocating for fairness in a profit-driven business, supporting a struggling team member, or demonstrating patience in a tense situation, I am called to lead in a way that honors God.

Faith in the Workplace: A Silent Mission Field

One of the hardest aspects of being a Christian in the corporate world is that faith has become almost taboo. Open discussions about God are rare, and expressing Christian values can sometimes feel like swimming against the tide of company culture. Yet, I am reminded of Matthew 5:16: “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

I may not be able to preach openly in my office, but I can still be a witness. My integrity, my work ethic, my compassion, and my commitment to truth all speak louder than words. Colossians 3:23 encourages us, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” This verse reminds me that my ultimate employer is not the company I work for—it’s God. If I work with excellence and honesty, not for personal gain but to honor Him, then my career becomes an act of worship.

Navigating the Bottom-Line Mentality with Christian Values

One of the greatest challenges I face is balancing my Christian values with a business culture that often prioritizes profit above all else. The temptation to cut ethical corners or to value efficiency over people is real. But Scripture reminds me to hold fast to righteousness. Proverbs 11:1 states, “A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight.”

I have made it my mission to be a leader who values people over profit, ethics over expedience, and faith over fear. This doesn’t always mean making the easiest choices, but it does mean making the right ones. And when I face resistance or discouragement, I remind myself that my work has a higher purpose—to reflect Christ in the way I lead and serve.

Purpose Beyond Profit

While I may never see my job listed as “kingdom work” in a traditional sense, I now recognize that God has placed me here for a reason. My career isn’t just about software implementation—it’s about influencing people for the better. It’s about demonstrating Christ’s love through leadership. It’s about being a light in an industry where faith is often pushed to the margins.

If you, too, have ever questioned how your work contributes to God’s kingdom, remember that no job is too secular for His purpose. Whatever your role, He can use you. And perhaps, like me, you’ll come to see that leadership itself is a ministry—one that allows us to serve others, stand firm in our values, and let our light shine in even the most unexpected places.