(The idea behind this series is – “what advice would I give my twenty-something sons about life?” So, I am taking the approach of coffee shop conversations with young men who are transitioning into independent manhood. These are lessons I have learned and would love to convey to young men – in hopes to impart some hard-earned wisdom rooted in Christ.)
If we were sitting across from each other and you asked me about your career…
I’d tell you that ambition isn’t the enemy – misplaced worship is.
It’s easy to believe the next title, raise, or role will finally make you feel secure. Like once you “arrive,” life will slow down and satisfaction will settle in. But the ladder never ends. There’s always another rung. Another comparison. Another reason to sacrifice more.
Work hard. Be reliable. Develop your skills.
But don’t build your identity around your job, because jobs are terrible gods. They demand everything and promise peace they can’t deliver.
One day, the job will change. Or the company will. Or you will. And if your worth is tied to your position, that shift will feel like losing yourself.
The goal isn’t to climb faster than everyone else. The goal is to become the kind of person who can handle success without losing integrity, relationships, or faith.
Your career should serve your life – not consume it.
Scripture to reflect on:
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. – Matthew 6:33
Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. – Proverbs 16:3
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters – Colossians 3:23
Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the LORD watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain. – Psalm 127:1
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